Previously on The Soul Talks, I had mentioned a poem where the storyline was the pain that is suffered when one of the two is honest while the other is dishonest. In case you’ve missed the poem, here’s the link: http://www.thesoultalks10.com/the-tale/
Today the aspect that I’ll be mentioning is ‘Sharing Your Thoughts‘
Restricting ourselves to not speak a word to someone when you are going through ups and downs is what is happening today!
The reason what I feel could be the sense of belonging that what will he/she think about me or the person might not help me or might drain me more!
Also another take to this story could be that ‘Is he worthy to me? Or in a better way that is She trustable?
This tend to happens that you hesitate to speak cus somewhere down the line you do not get that vibe or you do not attain positivity from his/her end.
But reader let me tell you that around 47% of your doubts or that uneasy feeling goes away with communication. On what grounds am I saying this? According to my research, The University of Philadelphia on their report on ‘Is Communication effective’ said very clearly that 47% of the tension goes away with communication. Be is corporate, be it personal, be it family or whatsoever the trouble might be, it tends to calm down when you start speaking!
Personally, I feel that if you sit down and talk to person whose views matter to you then friend you know what to do!
The three aspects again I feel that comes into existence with sharing your thoughts are:
The theory of Two-Way Traffic
I mean people say that ‘Why should I share when he doesn’t?’ Why should i be the one doing all the talk or taking effort!’
Keep this in mind that Relationships are formed then built and then experienced! If you need to experience a relationship joyously then you gotta form and built it. And the ego that he should be the one approaching cannot take you longer in life. Cus if he doesn’t share with you while you share your stuff then its okay! He might not do it for one time……two times….three times….but then he definitely will for the fourth time. You gotta understand that building a relationship is like stuck in traffic. First its red signal then after a while its yellow then after a while is green which means you can now move free.
Perks of letting it out
Once you start speaking and sharing then I guarantee that your mind will start thinking more in a positive way, I’ll tell you how!
If you’re feeling low you go to your ‘go too guy’ and speak it out…..you’re in a negative state of mind at that point of time while to cheer you up, your guy will def be in a positive frame. So negatives and positive charges work the best to make things happen for good!
Sharing your Thoughts is a Stressbuster too!
We all say that when I’m down…I sit alone or listen to music or be in my shell or speak to myself or restrict myself from everyone! They work but its temporary!
Being alone makes you strong…I agree but being together makes you Strong and Supportive! You attain a wider thinking over issues cus at times either you are sharing your issues or you are the receiving end!
By sitting alone this might happen that you just think of yourself but if you add another brain to it then you get a wider perspective!
Well, that’s it! I hope you had a good time reading! Comment down below what you feel and lemme know your thoughts!
Also guys Start Sharing your thoughts!