Three Crucial factors to identify Positive Vibes.

Previously on The Soul Talks, I had mentioned about How to Let Things go and why you should let things go. In case, you’ve missed the article, press this ‘Lettings Things Go’

Today, the topic that I’ll be sharing with you is about Oozing Positive Vibes. Positive vibes for me are of utmost want, if I do not sense a positive vibe from a person then I prefer to maintain distance.

For most of us, positive vibes are very important but there are a few and probably more who prefer to stay shady.

Positivity can uplift a person when he’s going throw a downfall, can increase a morale of someone who’s disturbed or can fill empty spaces in a person’s heart.

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To be optimistic is different and to ooze out positive vibes is different. If someone is optimistic that does not mean that person is oozing out positive vibes.

Optimism is the way of thinking and Positive vibes is the way of living.

While talking to an individual, just notice these three quick tips in-order to know whether he/she has that positive vibe to give out:

Overdoing stuff is not Positive Vibe:

While overdoing positivity with excessive gushing (like daylight that is too intense) can be off-putting, individuals who radiate positive vibes for the most part feel “warm.” Whether they are your boss, employee, or colleague, or your friend, relative, or life partner, warm people feel safe to share with. Like gentle sunshine, they radiate comfortably good feelings. Their positivity makes you want to talk with them more.  As they establish good vibes as a relationship standard, others find themselves radiating positive energy back.

Look for mannerism:

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This is that one trait we are kinda missing these days. Mannerism is of utmost preference while mentioning about positive vibes. If he pulls that chair for you to sit or opens up the door for you while moving, you kinda feel good or feel that sense of importance. Sometimes actions convey a lot then talk. This is that one subtle aspect that sets individuals apart in almost each walk of life.

And lastly,

Less argumentative and more constructive talks:

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Arguments can really turn you down and then even if someone makes up for it, you’ve already made up your mind that he’s negative. So, I feel that constructive talking gives the impetus for things to generate positively. Lets understand it with an example, while talking to someone, you mention your preference that I like Justin Bieber and imagine you getting a response like, “He was such a bash and was in jail too and was very rude to his fans at times” that’s definitely making you go away from that person but if you get a response like “He’s with Hailey and he’ happy.” You feel warmth and that is what you want.

I hope you had a good time reading this article. If you felt positive after reading this, kindly share the article and also subscribe to my blog if you haven’t. Just fill the form down below.

 

Piyush Choudhary

I see people hide their emotions and shut them down. Why on earth do you do that? If such is the case then stop breathing... I mean I don't mean that thing seriously but all I want to say is "Express Yourself!"

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  1. You put it up so constructively.
    Optimism is the way of thinking and positive vibes- way of living. Got something new to learn. Thanku🙏

    1. Each day is a new learning curve. Life has a lot of lessons to be learned. I’m glad I could be a medium. 🙂

      1. WOW !!
        I appreciate you
        I really felt glad in reading your posts , because I can find something special on each & every post yours

        1. I’ll tell you one thing Akshaya ji that the power of positivity can take people way ahead in life.
          Also, with readers like you, that power extends like a chain-system.
          Thank you so much for taking a hault to read my posts.🌸💙

          1. It’s really mesmeric to have your comments which is filled with your optimism & thoughtfulness
            Have a nice day brother 💙

          2. Sure. And as a brother, I will ensure that you’re not in any kind of trouble. If there’s any your brother is standing tall. Just one step away!👍🏻

  2. Loved this post.. well explained the difference between the positive vibes and optimism with some useful quick tips!!

  3. Wow! Piyush the whole post oozes positive vibe. Man, you should pursue being a motivational speaker or a councillor. You are too good at this Piyush. Yes it is a good feeling to be with a person who is full of positive vibes. The aura they transcend is very infectious. Knowingly or unknowingly they pass the vibes to the people with them. Great posting Piyush….

    1. Thank you Anamika ji for your kind response always. I believe if I can help people to get a good feeling about themselves, I will continue to do that.
      Correctly said that positivity is contigaious to go with negativity. We at times tend to forget that positivity is like a long drive. The more you drive, the better it gets.

      1. Uhmm….u said it perfecto…hey a small suggestion. .why not reblog this article in Pencliff too. This is too good and it surely requires a wider recognition. ..don’t you agree. And i think you are yet to introduce yourself in the new author’s page there. Please do that too. And ha a visit to my blog is pending too day b4 strday a fresh from farm collab has been published. .

        1. Ji jarur Anamika ji… abhi karte hain post Pencliff pe aur aapka fresh produce bhi abhi jaake padhte hain janab…

          1. Haha…sorry yaar…ye message padne mein zera dheri hogayi…iske pehle mein aapka Pencliff mein aapka post padliya. …

          2. Koi baat nai Anamika ji…dhyaan se nikal gaya hoga….

          3. Why haven’t u announced yourself in author’s page in Pencliff?

          4. Just check out this, aapko sab samaj ayenge.
            pencliff.wordpress.com/2018/10/26/pencliff-blog-update-for-the-authors/

          5. Comment nahi..woh page mein ek link hein author’s chat page wahan click karke woh page jao and u will c Pencliff authors introduction ,u introduce urself too.

          6. Haa maine wahi kara comment section I have introduced myself in the author’s page only.

    1. Thank you so much for stopping by and mentioning your views. Highly appreciated.

  4. A nice article. I learnt a new thing from here. There is a difference between optimism and positive vibes.

    1. Thank you Shayra for your kind words. It feels good when you can help someone. Stay happy, stay blessed.

  5. U said it well. Positive people know to divert any conversation into a positive one. They can see positive in every situation. It doesn’t mean that they dont feel bad but they try to find something positive in every situation.

    1. Absolutely true Rashu if you see positivity then things happen the same way. Life is all based on the way you think. If you think good, good turns its way and comes to you.
      Thank you for mentioning your views, appreciated!

  6. I love your post! I’m not sure if I’m an excessive person or not. Maybe? I struggle to stay positive. At times it’s like tug of war and maybe I pull too hard and fall down!

    1. I’ll tell you one thing that just be gentle and don’t push too hard, the rope of positivity would slide into your corner easily!

  7. Great post! I really enjoyed it. I love the quote about optimism versus positivity. I try to be positive and not go overboard. At the same time, it feels like it’s a tug of war battle and that when I do pull toward the positive side I fall down!

    1. Just ensure the fact that you get up once you’ve falled as that’s the most difficult part and you know I believe in life that Grass ain’t greener on the other side as green as you water it. So, don’t let your efforts go down but look for opportunities where you can make a mark for yourself.

      1. Thank you. 😊 You’re really kind. Sorry for the double post! The app crashed and I didn’t think it sent it.

  8. I absolutely love the feelings I’m getting from your positive vibes…. You have a rhythm about your words that makes my mind dance a happy dance! I can’t wait to dance with you again, keep posting!

    1. That’s so kind of you to say. The power of positivity is truly exceptional. I hope you’re doing good and will be waiting for your dance again..hehe..

  9. Absolutely wonderful and correct. You have the knack of giving insightful message in a very short post.
    Keep smiling,
    Keep motivating.

    1. Thank you Moushmi for your kind support always and your time to read my posts.
      Keep supporting.

  10. You have a nice blog, but can you watch my first YouTube video which is based on Cricket and the link is provided in my latest post titled YouTube…

    I don’t want to waste my time in making the video if doesn’t have any potential. So, please provide me your valuable feedback on it.

  11. How did I miss this post..
    So Insightful post Piyush. Positivity is what we all need to be on track of our life..

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