Today the aspect I’ll be sharing my views is ‘being replaced in life’ and how to identify whether you’re replaced from someone’s life.
When the shoulder you always had your head on is no longer available then it ruins you, it tears you apart, it disbelieves your belief, you no longer feel your self worth and it is more agonizing than rejection. You no longer cultivate that trust again and on top of that you become very picky and you always doubt and always have that second thought even if someone is really being nice to you.
This is how bad it can get but why do you want to make it reach so far. If you feel that you’re starting to be replaced, look for these signs.
Less constructive more hidden.
Being in any form of healthy relationship, you talk about family, you talk about friends, careers, future, you give advice and listen to advice but in turn if you’re getting also those talks which end up in a statement or two then there’s something really wrong there. You’ll understand more by the following chats.
No more of crap gossips.
Crap gossips might sound wayward but trust me, that’s the best thing to do. Sitting with your partner or anyone very close and talking utter nonsense and enjoying, that’s probably the best time. With relationships tearing apart, this is the first sign to notice.
Hifi turn to Low Lows.
As a matter of fact, to justify this point, when you stay together and bond together you enjoy together. Relishing the moments would soon turn into barely talking. Truly speaking you could smell the watered fire.
Being replaced by someone you care for is very difficult to gulp, but losing you in the process is more tough. And on top of that that’s even worse than being replaced. Don’t change or adapt to someone else’s standards, you were liked for Being You and not for someone who adapts. As a matter of fact, don’t second-guess your worth and whatever happens, happens for a reason. If ever you feel like you need to change yourself, do it for you and not for anyone. As much as it’s hard to think about the future and move on, you have to. Life is not meant to be spent living backwards.
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