I’ve noticed this thing a lot that we don’t care about others, we don’t look for their perspective and we don’t understand what they’re trying to say. Does this make you selfish? Yes!! As in my earlier posts on Self-love and Self-respect, this is about empathy and this is about ‘Why Should You Understand Others Perspective?’
It’s really disheartening to see when you focus too much on yourself and barely look out for the opposite person’s point of view. My first post of this year where I had talked about ‘How these 6 emotions will stabilise your Mental Health’ so in this I’ll be mentioning about Empathy which I feel is somewhere lost.
Sometimes we care about us, then we care about us and ONLY we CARE about US.
TELL ME IS THAT FAIR?
Things don’t matter – people do! And it’s also said that life isn’t worth living unless its lived for someone else.
I don’t mean to say to think about others all the time but you can do that at times. It’s a materialistic world where things given have more value than feelings derived and it screws my mind that “Duh, Why Always?”
You know showing empathy can be so relaxing. Imagining the fact that how it must’ve been for him/her can literally soothe you up. If you lose your temper over that situation then what it would’ve been for him to accept it. The thought that he bared the exact same situation to which I lost my shit onto can evoke a new calm effect within you.
Give it a thought and trust me you’ll notice the difference. I’ve massively improved myself by doing so. It removes the unwanted stubbornness from you and puts in huge strides of self-believe and appreciation.
What I see is most of us try to OVERPOWER others but very few EMPOWER others.
I apologise for not being active for 8-10 days as I was on a trip. I hope you had a good time reading and I appreciate your support. Drop down your ever so valuable comments and have a great day!